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Hey y’all,

Remember I told y’all I was coming back well here I am and here I go. I’ve been contemplating writing this for a while but I’m ready to start getting stuff off my chest. Man, man, man adulting can be hard sometimes and they don’t give you the blueprint but it’s always best to stay grateful in the midst or being strong through this phase we call life so that we can continue to live while we learn lessons at the same time.

Our parents never explained why especially, in the black community that the mothers are harder on their daughters than they are their sons and then wonder why when it comes to black women, they’ve conditioned women with harder exteriors that can’t wait to be their soft feminine selves, especially, when they start their healing journey.

See us black women we get tired of wearing a cape on our backs and we want to just relax sometimes and enjoy life instead of always being the one figuring things out. I’ve been figuring out things in life for my family since I was a young girl and honestly I feel like I never got to experience childhood like a “normal” child so constantly as an adult my inner child has always wanted to play and I’m sure others can relate.

Due to things like this you have adults that always say “I’m a kid at heart” and most adults that utter those words have went through some type of childhood trauma honestly.

Childhood trauma isn’t just being raped or molested. Childhood trauma is being yelled at, cursed at, abused/beaten, malnutrition and a list of many other things.

Childhood trauma can carry over and if you don’t heal from your childhood trauma it will eventually become your children childhood trauma. This is why it’s important to heal before you have children so that they’re not healing ❤️‍🩹 from things you should’ve healed from. I really wished my mother would’ve had someone in her corner that could’ve helped her on her journey because now I’m healing ❤️‍🩹 from things she should’ve healed from. I know she gets concerned because I’m the distant child but I’m just healing and protecting my peace but I love her no less.

Don’t let NOBODY make you feel bad for distancing yourself to protect your peace!

I said all that to say heal for not only yourself but for your children and those around you because negative energy spreads like a wildfire and after so long it gets hard to put out.