spiritualunicornbae
Aug 16, 20224 min
What is a soul tie? A soul tie is an intense spiritual connection between two people bounded by different things.
A marriage, business partnership, friendship and sex are considered soul ties.
Whenever you’re looking to break a soul tie it’s because it’s beginning to have an effect on you negatively and it isn’t easy for you to walk away easily it’s almost as if the connection has you in a chokehold in a negative way.
Signs you might need to break a soul tie:
You’re at a place in your life where you cry a lot and you think about this person obsessively and you’re unable to move on.
Although you know the relationship serves you no purpose you’re tempted to go back.
You cry a lot about this connection.
You continue to communicate with them after you’ve blocked them or contact them from different numbers after they’ve blocked you.
Although you’ve separated from this person you think about them a lot and want to send them messages.
You stalk them on social media and post thinks to get their attention or the attention of someone connected to them
You find yourself thinking about them and wondering are they thinking about you.
You find it hard to get rid of sentimental things connected to them.
”Breaking A Soul Tie” isn’t easy but if you continue to carry the same bricks from relationship to relationship you’ll end up building the same house so breaking a soul tie is needed more times than most.
There are many ways to break soul ties but here are some of the steps that I’ve found successful when trying to break a soul tie and I hope you find it just as helpful.
1. Acknowledge
The first step is to admit you have created a soul tie with this person. Sometimes this is the hardest step because we want to live in denial (who, me? I don’t have a problem letting go). But, there’s nothing more empowering than acknowledging we have a problem and we’re taking steps to address it. The simple act of saying it out loud is a sign of taking back your power.
2. Forgive
Whatever went wrong in the relationship and finding who is at fault no longer matters. What matters most is your peace, so it’s time to find forgiveness for yourself and the other person. The easiest way I’ve seen to do this is to focus on the lessons and blessings that came from this relationship. What did you learn? How did you grow? How did you benefit? How are you a better person? I know it sucks and may not feel fair, but please don’t skip this step. It’s a critical part of the process because forgiveness makes it easier to sever the tie.
3. Visualize
Close your eyes and imagine yourself standing in front of this person with a cord connecting your hearts. Make this as real as possible—see and feel the tie that binds you together. Next, visualize yourself cutting this cord. Get creative with this process. Use imaginary scissors, a sword, or even a chainsaw! But be sure to do it lovingly. I’ve also used my hand to make a cutting motion in front of my body as if I were cutting an energetic umbilical cord.
4. Declutter
Gather up all the items that serve as reminders of this person and the relationship. Throw them in the trash, donate them to a charity, delete them from your phone, or burn them! Whatever it is, remove it from sight (and no, it can’t just go in the attic to be retrieved later). I’ve found it empowering to do a burning ritual. Just be safe if you go this route.
5. Release
Write a letter to this person telling them you forgive them and that you’re releasing them to move on in life. You don’t have to send the message—just getting it out on paper is a powerful experience.
Sometimes it takes more than one session, and you may have to repeat these steps if you feel yourself still bonded to the person. Just know this is normal.
The last step in this process is the most critical: ongoing awareness. Remain aware of your feelings and keep your guard up if there are future interactions with this person. They may be having a hard time letting go too, which makes it even more important to protect yourself from falling back into the bond that you just broke. You may need to establish firm boundaries and cut all communication for a while.
After reading this post,
I hope everyone who has read this post has received some insight.
Thank you so much for your support and walking with me through my journey and for allowing me to assist you with guiding you through yours! xoxoxo The Spiritual Unicorn 🦄