Hey šš½ Unicorns š¦ Donāt Tell NOBODY! - Letās Chat + Vibe š»š§š½āāļøāØ| Childhood Trauma
- Jul 31, 2022
- 2 min read
Hey yāall,
Remember I told yāall I was coming back well here I am and here I go. Iāve been contemplating writing this for a while but Iām ready to start getting stuff off my chest. Man, man, man adulting can be hard sometimes and they donāt give you the blueprint but itās always best to stay grateful in the midst or being strong through this phase we call life so that we can continue to live while we learn lessons at the same time.
Our parents never explained why especially, in the black community that the mothers are harder on their daughters than they are their sons and then wonder why when it comes to black women, theyāve conditioned women with harder exteriors that canāt wait to be their soft feminine selves, especially, when they start their healing journey.
See us black women we get tired of wearing a cape on our backs and we want to just relax sometimes and enjoy life instead of always being the one figuring things out. Iāve been figuring out things in life for my family since I was a young girl and honestly I feel like I never got to experience childhood like a ānormalā child so constantly as an adult my inner child has always wanted to play and Iām sure others can relate.
Due to things like this you have adults that always say āIām a kid at heartā and most adults that utter those words have went through some type of childhood trauma honestly.
Childhood trauma isnāt just being raped or molested. Childhood trauma is being yelled at, cursed at, abused/beaten, malnutrition and a list of many other things.
Childhood trauma can carry over and if you donāt heal from your childhood trauma it will eventually become your children childhood trauma. This is why itās important to heal before you have children so that theyāre not healing ā¤ļøāš©¹ from things you shouldāve healed from. I really wished my mother wouldāve had someone in her corner that couldāve helped her on her journey because now Iām healing ā¤ļøāš©¹ from things she shouldāve healed from. I know she gets concerned because Iām the distant child but Iām just healing and protecting my peace but I love her no less.
Donāt let NOBODY make you feel bad for distancing yourself to protect your peace!
I said all that to say heal for not only yourself but for your children and those around you because negative energy spreads like a wildfire and after so long it gets hard to put out.
Entire thing resonated even age.
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Wow talk about perfect timing
Wow!! I just recently was having a conversation with my fiancĆ© about having fun and stuff like that. Out the blue it hit I am suffering from childhood trauma and I honestly donāt think I ever realized that. Timing is everything because I needed to read this to give me the push to really face it head on. Thank you for sharing this and being vulnerable with us because I needed this.